For women who feel more, love deeper & live with more intensity:
Don't change your self to fit in. Create the love & life that fit you.
I help you to awaken your deepest heart's desires and unleash your magnetic, vibrant Self.
Have you been swallowing your desires and pleasing others for far too long?
Yet sometimes you wonder:
Why do you have so little confidence in yourself?
You had imagined your life to be different - but you lack the courage & drive to realize the things that truuuly matter to you... The dreams that you once had got buried somewhere under all the other stuff you thought you had to achieve first. Now you feel almost too old, too silly, or too insecure to start again. And where, when, how should you even begin?
Why do you have to work so hard for love?
You are frustrated with partners who do not give you the commitment or closeness that you are longing for... You give so much and get so little in return. So often you feel hurt, betrayed, and frustrated. You think about breaking up, but wonder if you're maybe just making too much of a fuss. Whether you can still change something about YOURSELF (expect less, argue less, endure more) so that this relationship works and you don't end up alone again...
Where does all this rage come from?
You don't want to be complaining all the time, but... you talk until your head is blue and yet, your wishes are constantly being ignored! Until you lose your temper! Then of course you feel ashamed of the frustrated monster inside you that you just can't get under control, but... Unfortunately, your wish has still not been heard. Are you asking for the impossible?
You probably blame yourself for not feeling fully seen, loved, and fulfilled. Obviously, there's something wrong with you.
So you grit your teeth and function. You don't want to seem ungrateful or - God forbid! - to be a burden. So you try to squeeze into boxes that are too small for you.
Babe, fuck that shit!!!
Du bist SO viel mehr, als du dir bisher erlaubt hast zu sein. Hör auf, dem Rest der Welt zu dienen und fang endlich an dir selbst zu dienen.
Unshamed.
Untamed.
The 1:1 coaching program with step-by-step instructions to help you realize your heart's desires with pleasure and joy:
You feel who you are
My work is body and process-oriented: Instead of looking for "heady" solutions that take you further and further away from the core of your being, I guide you from the endless thinking-in-circles to the deep, conscious sensing of your body. In this way, you gradually release your numbness, rigidity, and heaviness - and transform them into boundless aliveness.
You feel what you desire
I will help you to melt away your protective armour of hardness and become soft and sensitive again: Amidst all the suffocating demands of the outside world, you will now feel your hidden desires surfacing inside of you again, and start to put your pleasure first - finally. You will learn how to express your wishes authentically - without fear, guilt, or shame.
You live your own life
I also support you in creating your true, authentic value system, beyond family or social conventions. This way, you can liberate previously suppressed facets of your personality, embody your boundaries with confidence (no more nerve-wracking discussions!), and create exactly the exciting opportunities and fulfilling relationships that you desire.
More feeling. More space. Mehr freedom.
I'm shaking! I just showed up in my vulnerability and told my boyfriend what I really desire - and he got me and had my back!.
At first, it felt very raw and vulnerable to be so radically honest - but now it almost gets me "high". I am touched by how much closer and more intimate my relationships have become as a result. I am more at peace with myself, much more relaxed and less reactive than before.
Cate, 35
15 years after studying art, I'm finally making art again - and it feels great!!!
Before the coaching, I "functioned" as a single mother: I was there for everyone else - but often felt exhausted and frustrated. Melanie helped me to dissolve very old emotional blocks and to reawaken my sense of self. I was able to let go of tons of guilt, so that I no longer feel responsible for people who used to rob me of so much energy. I am now using this energy for myself and my art.
Martina, 41
I feel much safer not saying "yes" straight away, but taking time to make my own decisions.
It actually feels "outrageous" every now and then to be so "difficult" - and I absolutely love it!!! It's just sexy to know what I want and what I don't want. Instead of going out of my way, I first feel and see: What would be most pleasant for ME?
Xenia, 36
Hi - I'm Melanie!
Emotions, Embodiment & Empowerment Coach - here to unleash the audacious, vibrant women within you.
I know the fear of being "too much" all too well: For a long time, I tried to please others and worked hard to earn appreciation and love. Yet, I rarely got what I desired with all my heart. Until I finally realized:
Being "good" won't get me anywhere!
My training in empowerment coaching, non-violent communication, and yoga helped me to take off the “good girl” mask and unleash the audacious, vibrant woman within me.
Hiding my truth or bending over backwards for appreciation and love is no longer an option. One thing I've learned is that only when I express who I truly am, can I get what I truly desire.
Today it is my mission to guide women back into their sensual aliveness, emotional depth, and wild, vibrant self-expression:
Mit diesen Ergebnissen kannst du rechnen:
You no longer fight for love and recognition
Instead of continuing to look for validation in the same old places on the OUTSIDE, you now look inward and follow the signals of your body - away from people and situations that are not good for you and towards everything that truly fulfills you.
You free yourself from the boxes that have long since become too small for you
Instead of limiting yourself to what you "should" do or what you've always done, you discover an unashamed joy in breaking those shackles - and expressing your (weird? eccentric? rebellious?) facets. (Yay!)
You are connected to your natural magnetism
Instead of straining and burning out, you let go of the desire for control and connect with your soft, flowing energy - that magical, radiant energy within you that easily and almost effortlessly draws exactly the right people and opportunities into your life.
Grab your *free* introductory call now:
Show the world
the real, imperfect, quirky, weird, beautiful, and dazzling woman, that you are.
This is how I support you:
1:1 coaching sessions of 90 minutes each (12x)
We bring your desires from the depths of your subconscious to the surface. Together we melt away the fears and resistance that prevent you from living your life the way you want.
Telegram messenger service - weekdays (6 months)
I am just a text or voice message away, so you can feel truly safe, supported, and celebrated for the duration of the coaching plan.
Embodiment processes for home (Forever yours!)
You will receive valuable tools for your daily life that will make it easier for you to reawaken the vitality of your body, to lovingly accompany yourself through difficult feelings and to express and implement your wishes without fear.
Schnapp dir schnell deinen *Gratis* Kennenlern-Call:
Coaching or psychotherapy?
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My work is trauma-sensitive, but it is not a substitute for psychotherapy. Consciously dealing with emotions can help you process emotional wounds and blockages - but it is not always the (only) answer.
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Acute mental crises or severe mental disorders require therapeutic treatment. Please contact your family doctor or local emergency services for further information.
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If you have any questions about whether this coaching is right for you, please feel free to contact me. I am also happy to give you tips about other paths and options.